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Mufti Qasim Zia

Youth guidance and positive mentorship

Helping young people thrive

“O young man, I shall teach you some words: Be mindful of Allah and Allah will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you…”

— Jamiʿ at-Tirmidhi 2516

Youth guidance and mentorship support young Muslims through the challenges of growing up, guided by faith and good role models. This page explains what it offers, when it helps, and how a caring mentor can make a lasting difference.

Young people today face many pressures, from identity and peer influence to faith and the online world. A trusted mentor helps them navigate wisely. Here we explain how this support works, in simple words.

What is Youth guidance and positive mentorship

Youth mentorship pairs a young person with a caring, trustworthy mentor who guides them with faith, wisdom, and encouragement. It helps young Muslims build good character, stay connected to their religion, and face life’s pressures with confidence.

The Prophet ﷺ gave special care to young people, guiding them gently and believing in them. Many great companions were young. This mentorship follows that example, treating young people as valued and capable.

Identity, faith and belonging

Growing up between cultures and pressures, many young Muslims wrestle with identity and faith. A mentor helps them feel proud and secure in who they are, connecting their religion to real life in a positive, relatable way.

Feeling that they belong, and that someone believes in them, protects young people from drifting or feeling alone. A good mentor is a steady, encouraging presence during confusing years.

Real-life pressures

Mentorship helps young people handle peer pressure, school stress, the online world, and difficult choices. A mentor offers a listening ear and honest guidance, helping them make wise decisions rather than following the crowd.

It also encourages positive goals, such as education, good friendships, and service to others. Channelling young energy towards good keeps them motivated and helps them grow into strong, responsible adults.

Common wrong ideas

Some think young people should simply be told what to do and will obey. In reality, young people respond best to respect, listening, and good example. Harshness often pushes them away, while caring guidance draws them in.

Others believe struggling teenagers are a lost cause. That is never true. With patience, belief, and the right mentor, young people can turn around remarkably. Every young person has good within them worth nurturing.

How the course works

  • 1. A young person is matched with a caring, trustworthy mentor.
  • 2. The mentor listens and builds a trusting relationship.
  • 3. They talk through faith, identity, and real‑life pressures.
  • 4. The mentor offers honest guidance and good example.
  • 5. Positive goals and good habits are encouraged.
  • 6. The young person grows in confidence, character, and faith.

Why this service matters

The teenage years shape a person’s future, and the pressures are greater than ever. A caring, faith‑based mentor helps young Muslims stay grounded, build good character, and make wise choices during these crucial years.

It also prevents many young people from drifting away or feeling alone. Having someone who listens, guides, and believes in them can change a young person’s whole path, benefiting them, their family, and the community.

Frequently Asked Questions

My teenager won’t listen to me. Can a mentor help?

Often, yes. Young people frequently respond well to a caring, trusted mentor from outside the immediate family, who listens without judgement and leads by good example. A mentor is not a replacement for parents, but a supportive extra voice. Respect and listening tend to reach young people far better than pressure alone.

What sort of issues does mentorship help with?

It helps with identity, faith, belonging, peer pressure, school stress, the online world, friendships, and difficult choices. A mentor offers a listening ear and honest guidance, and encourages positive goals like education and good character. The aim is to help young Muslims stay grounded and make wise decisions during challenging years.

Is mentorship safe for my child?

It should be, when the service follows strong safeguarding practice, including appropriate checks for those working with under‑18s and safe, transparent settings. Always choose a trusted provider. If a young person is ever at risk, call 999 in an emergency, or contact the NSPCC on 0808 800 5000; young people can call Childline free on 0800 1111.

If your family would like a caring mentor for a young person, you can book a private, confidential consultation to talk it through.

Support Young Muslims With Caring Guidance

Get in touch to discuss youth guidance, mentorship or support needs, or submit your questions and receive patient, faith-sensitive guidance.

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